Y Sunday, November 30, 2008 - 4:47 AM Y

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Meet up with Joey and we went for lunch at Suki, then went for the movie Cape No.7. I thought I could expect more from the movie.


He says that he couldn't imagine himself getting married. And when he have a child, he would probably be the sort of father who would bring his son for some drinking. I totally disagree. But I didn't tell him.


I guess he is the sort of loving father, a successful one. He just appears to be like this to me.

Anyway, I have already let go of the past. I am very confident that I already have. I didn't felt pain or pity anymore when I see him. And I have realised that it is just that some people can be extremely bad and cruel to be going around hurting and cheating other people's feeling. Then making my life so miserable and angry. Cursing everyday, angry everyday, throw a tantrum everyday and going around blaming everyone.

And I saw him playing and messing around with some other women. I turn my back so that I could not see what is going on and try to focus my attention on other stuff. Because if I choose not to see anything or hear anything, then it will not hurt me, I will not be sad and I will not I think about it. I would rather not know in "detail"(How happy their expression is, or how loud is their laughter etc).

5.00am Sunday 20November2008


Y Saturday, November 29, 2008 - 4:17 AM Y

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Sometimes I wish that I am the special one for him. But I isn't. I am not that unique one.

I love the wrinkles near his eye when he smile or laugh.
I love the lines on his forehead when he tries to figure out something or when in doubt.
I love his hands which is big and strong and seem so warm to hold.

It is just that I am not that special one.

4.20am 29Nov2008 Saturday

And..
Friendship is something which is just so on the surface. Friendship weakens over time. And then friends might just become a passer by someday.
Friends. I really coundn't defined them. Even the dictionary, wikipedia or encarta couldn't give me the explanation I want.


Y Friday, November 28, 2008 - 2:52 AM Y

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I THINK I AM TOO EMOTIONAL TO BLOG NOW. SHALL CONTINUE AGAIN.

2.50AM FRIDAY 28NOVEMBER2008


Y Monday, November 24, 2008 - 12:08 PM Y

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I think that I have ran out of inspiration to blog.

Well, just that many customers realised that I have the potential or am very talented to work in the nail parlour or the beauty saloon. If I have the capital or perhaps someone wants to share some investment with me, I will surely set up my own shop.

Sompa I am not exaggerating. At least 20% of the female customers while checking in at the reception counter compliment on my bling bling nails/fake eye lashes/my own eye lash/eye glitter/eye liner/eye shadow.

Few days ago, while I went to buy chicken rice, the uncles asked if I work at a nail parlour, I said no. Few days ago, while I went to buy bubble tea, the aunty asked if I work at a nail parlour, I said no. Maybe people with nice nails gets these questions everyday.

When customers asked me how much is it to do my nails, my answer is always the same, I told them that I need an hour of patience and some crystals. Maybe $10 I guess. LOL! Maybe I should come up with a name cards, asked them to call me for an appointment if they want! Price is negotiable! LALALA!

Well, I really hate it when my superior become "陪酒男/做鸭的". Plus when he drinks, it seems that he dosen't care about sales/floor anymore, only the customer in this cabin is important. Then it makes other people seem his leadership skills as "只有这一点程度而已". Few days ago we had some "quarrel" again that makes me broke down. And he thought that he is the only one feeling troubled and 辛苦. I also have my troubles to worry about.

The area manager's view on a good leadership that he told me again on Saturday machiam reflecting specifically on someone else: Multi tasking, you want to drink can, but you still have to know what is happening on the floor, you shouldn't vanished into that cabin for like one or two hours. Don't blame faults on the subordinates(yes, he is right, it causes really a great traumatic impact on me, the incident I decided to keep silent about it). Don't be like a wooden block and like so "stoned"

Maybe I can do some "brainwash" and voice out my opinion for him to study.

12.50pm 24November2008 Monday



Y Wednesday, November 19, 2008 - 9:11 AM Y

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Damn freaking TMD angry with these bunch of customers yesterday. I am looking forward to receive a complain letter these few days by those disgusting women.

Five women came.

Customer: I have made a reservation under *Idiot.
Then I go on with explaining the charges.

Idiot 1: Huh, when I made the reservation you didn't say you close at 2am! Now we only have three hours?
Me: I'm sorry, our operationg hours is until 2am.
Idiot 1: Then why you didn't tell us that you closes at 2am?

You fucking idiot. A reservation is only to ensure that there is a room for you, plus you didn't ask! You only asked about the charges and leave down your particulars! TMD FUCKER!

Me: I'm sorry, it is my fault that I didn't inform you that we operates only until 2am.
Idiot 2: But I thought it is a 4 hour session? So we can sing until 3?

You fucking idiot. Didn't you understand simple language? WE CLOSES AT 2AM!

Me: I'm sorry, we closes at 2am.
Idiot 1: But everytime I go Cineleisure, they says that it is a 4 hour package!
Me: I'm sorry, room timing is subject to availabilty and differs among outlets.
Idiot 2: But everytime is 4 hours what..

Fucker! Is she a retard? Didn't I just explained?

9.30am 19November2008 Wednesday


Y Tuesday, November 18, 2008 - 8:49 AM Y

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Well, there is too much for me to blog until I didn't know what to blog!

1. More and more people (customers) says that my bling bling nails is nice. Almost everyday, almost every hour. However hearing the same thing repeatedly and repeatedly answer the same thing is also becoming rather irritating.

2. I have to pack up my room, it is getting messier!

3. The 3 albums I have bought recently - Ayumi, S.H.E and Jay

4. The magazines I have to get myself every month - CLEO, Her World, Glamour, Ray, Reader's Digest

5. It seems that my room is getting too over loaded with my stuff or either, my room is getting smaller.

6. I can't focus in school. See? I'm still blogging!

12.00noon Tuesday 18November2008


Y Wednesday, November 12, 2008 - 8:44 AM Y

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I think I really love being the receptionist more and more. Didn't understand why I get more praises, more compliment each day. MUAHAHA!!! Perhaps that might be because I have been trying to stop being very grumpy (yet, I am still grumpy), and I have been trying to be someone nicer. :)

The Case:
Two auntys approached me after their singing session with a cute and chubby son.

Aunty 1: Help me add my points into my membership. :)
Me: Yup. Oh, you have spent over $100 and can participate in our 6th annivasary lucky dip. Good luck!

So, while the server is taking the vouchers for the customer we have a slight conversation.

Aunty 1: Your kitty pendant very nice leh, where did you buy it?
Me: I bought it in AMK Hub, deh, just opposite that shop only.. that one, near that shop.. Also very cheap only.

开始三姑六婆了起来...

Aunty 2: Aiyah, people young and pretty, wear what also nice, we aunty aunty wear liao 吉蒂猫will also become 招财猫..

And me? Of course I keep smiling and 开始心花怒放了起来..

Aunty 2: Wah! Aiyo! Her eyes very pretty leh, can "sort电" one, also "水汪汪" one.
Aunty 1: Of course lah, tow kay employ counter girl must be pretty one mah, who will come when counter girl not pretty? If not come liao then turn heard and run away already loh..

Hoho!! This is the first time customer says that I am pretty with such confirmation! I mean no one else other than my eldest sister and my papa and mama did ever praise me like this before!

Anyway, I really like it when people give remarks on how beautiful my eyes is. Yes, many people have double eye lids, many people have big eyes. BUT theirs eyes does not "speak".
People have always says that the eyes is our 心灵之窗. I have always tried to convince myself that I am not a person who is so 心肠恶毒 because of the eyes I see in my reflection.
And also from what I have always believe in since young, 有坚定的眼神是能托付终生的男人..

I mean everytime when I apply make up, I really focused a great deal lot on my eyes, whether the mascara, the eye shadows and the eye liner looks nice and matching and then I will sometimes study how to apply them so that it will make my eyes more "eye catching" to others.

I really love buying cosmetics products nowadays. Help! I guess it have already become one of my hobby! I think I am spending too much on them!


And I have also bought the latest product of LOREAL, the infallible lip stick. Damn really amazing I tell you. It is really lasting and dosen't fall of easily!
2.00pm Wednesday 12November2008


Y Monday, November 10, 2008 - 8:50 AM Y

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是的.. 欢乐时光过得特别快!!

If time can passes slower even by a tiny weeny little bit, I would also be much more happier! >.<

I'm happy everyday!

Scene 1
Customer A: Your "hello kitty" pendant is very nice!
Me: Haha.. Thank you.
Customer A: Where did you get it?
Me: Secret.. Don't want to tell you.. *beaming*

Scene 2
Customer B (talking to her friend): I like her hand. It seems very long and slim. The nail polish also very nice.
Me: Haha.. Got people say my hand is short and fat like Doraemon's. Maybe is the nails that make it seems longer and slimmer.. *beaming*

Scene 3
A guy comes with two ladies.
Me: Welcome to K Box. So do you drink Martell or Chivas?
Customer C: Got promotion is it?
Me: Because got waiver of cover charge. Today one person is already $18++, if you open a bottle, you just need to pay for the liquor, then no need to pay for the $18++.
Customer C: Wah, very expensive leh. Plus cannot finish, we three people drinking only.
Me: It is waiver of 4 cover charge actually, call your friend come down drink together lah! Plus you open a bottle I give you a bigger room with three microphones and got 2 plasma tv one leh.. Cannot finish never mind, can keep here for three months, next time come back drink..
Customer C: ... (Considering)
Me: If you take normal charge only got 2 drinks, not enough to drink one. Your liquor also come along with 2 mixers you can order coke/green tea etc. Soda/water mixer is free flow. If not I free you three mixer? Normally only got two mixer, but I see you all look like very nice and easy going people..
Customer C to his subordinates: 哈哈.. 看到了没有? 学着点...
Customer C: Then how much is it total?
Me: Around $250 something.
Customer C: Wah, quite expensive hor..
Me: If not I give you an additional 5% of sub-total bill, almost a $10 discount wor.
Customer C to his subordinates: 哈哈.. 我们公司就是要有这样讲话一流, 会做生意的人, 学着点..
Customer C: Ok lah! Wah, your company is very fortunate to employ you, you should work in the sales industry, work here you will bury your talents....
Me: Haha.. Don't have lah, I'm not good to that certain extend. *beaming with pride*

2.30pm 10November2008 Monday


Y Thursday, November 6, 2008 - 3:07 PM Y

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There isn't school and work for me today. And I am spending all day at home. Reading all my previous blog entries. Back to 2005.

I realised that all my life I have been saying things like losing weight. I did succeed before, but my weight then bounced back after a while. :(

And I have been like blogging about longing for a boyfriend. Some of those things I wrote before, I found some of them quite funny, quite saddening, quite true, if not damn wrong.

1. Good men have girlfriend, men that is not good also have girlfriend.

(OK, totally agreeable)

2. 遇到喜欢的人, 他不喜欢我. 遇到喜欢的人, 他已有女朋友. 从今以后, 遇到喜欢的人, 我决定了别在想那么多.

(Wrong decision, I still must think a lot as there is consequences, unless I am someone who is strong enough not to let any consequences affects me then that would be another matter.

3. 所以说, 爸爸讲"眼睛"要张大点. 我觉得我是家里姐妹当中"眼睛张最大"的了..

(Which is damn wrong, I was wrong! My eyes is only big physically!)

4. 我决定了, 我不只是要等待真爱, 我还要等待相爱。。 单恋,对我来说是非常痛苦的。。 发现我非常渴望的被爱.. 真正被爱的感觉是如何呢? 我会写"真正"是因为现在的男生太没有诚意了.

(Well, perhaps true love is something only happens when both are in love. Anyway, yes. Guys nowadays is really insincere)

Anyway, after reading my previous blog entries, I reaised that now, I have always been grumbling. Maybe it is not very nice to blog unhappy stuff. I shall try to post up more haapy entries!

Lingmeimei wants to be happy...

http://lovemyself.blog.friendster.com/

4.00pm Thursday 6November2008


Y Tuesday, November 4, 2008 - 8:54 AM Y

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The art of faking a smile.. I' so proud of myself!!


TMD! These batch of China women came for a singing session last night. When they are leaving, I asked them if they have their receipts as they can participate in our 6th anniversary lucky draw. KNN! Good people is really damn difficult to be! I can just fucking hell let them go off say bye to them.


Me: Got receipt? We are now celebrating our 6th anniversary so there is a lucky draw.
Prostitute: Don't have, your server didn't give us the receipt..
Me: Wait for me a while, I go help you find your receipt.
Prostitute Queen: Eh, why your server just now didn't tell us about lucky draw?
Me: The lucky draw is supposed to be ceased but it will be continued for another week.


WOW! Nice people is really difficult to be with these type of person around! HELLO? I'm at rehab ok? I'm trying to be someone nice ok? CHEEBYE KIA!


10 minutes later...


After searching high and low, I still couldn't find the receipt and give up.
I give them the privilege to draw first and decide to look for another receipt to replace it next time.

Plus I thought that she is not so lucky after all WITH HER DAMN FUCKING PISSED OFF KANASAI ATTITUTE.


Ok. She draws a $5 cash voucher. I thought, DAMN, she got $5, was hoping she could draw a "Thank You" at most!

So when I return from the cashier to take the cash voucher, I was glad to found out that those prostitutes were playing with the lucky dip box.

Prostitute 1: Walao! Got only $5, they got MP3 inside.
Prostitute 2: You so suay lah, I should be the one to draw.

I gave them the $5 cash voucher, give them a smile which I believe is a very graceful and beautiful smile someone can give when she is burining with fire inside.

Come on lah.. 知足常乐..

Plus Prostitute 2, you very lucky meh?
Most of the time people thought that they are the "unique" or the "special one" when they are not.

Until now, I've seen many China woman, and I dislike like maybe 99.9% of them! Maybe they are not all bad people, but they are people who are really realistic, inconsiderate and thick skin. And they talk so damn fucking loudly also. Some of the things that I think is very embarrassing to do in the public, it means nothing to those people.

Example 1: Digging their ears with a cotton bud in the public.

Oh My God! I mean I really idolise them like this, bringing cotton bud along somemore wor! Although I know it is not nice to have someone looking into your ears to find some ear wax all over inside, but please lah, do it at home!

Ok, a little bit out of point of the thing that I want to blog about. I mean, it is really difficult to be nice with these sort of people around you.

Excuses..

There is someone who still can be such a nice person! He can!! He really can! Really amazingly.. It is always never too late to start learning and regretting..

I should learn to put the word "regret" away from me as there is really too much regrets I have. Now, I will have to learn to get rid of the word "regret" from my dictionary!

10.00am Tuesday 4November2008


Y Monday, November 3, 2008 - 9:37 AM Y

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Recently, I'm quite depressed. I really enjoy the time working under Louis. Imagine if two or three months later there would be someone taking over his place! NOoOOoOOo!!!!!!!!!!

I couldn't sleep last night because of this. Perhaps it is just too early to worry about it. Since a few weeks ago, I've already been thinking about this. And then, I've been like poisoning my mind with this problem everyday. This thing is really troubling me. Really really super depressed. Why does there need to be a change of in charge every few months? WHY? WHY? WHY? Can time be stuck here? Can? Can?

How am I going to get use to other in charge when I am so independent when I'm under Louis? How am I going to survive if there will be many restrictions from the new in charge?
How am I going to carry on if the new in charge isn't as humorous, as kind, as patient, as reasonable, as forgiveful as this as that as Louis?

I shouldn't be selfish and must be grateful that at least I am blessed with such a nice incharge for a few months.

HELP!!

10.00am Monday 3 November 2008


Y Sunday, November 2, 2008 - 8:47 PM Y

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Haha.. Eileen sent me an email on horoscope.. After I had read it, I found it awfully funny!!

Some of you might know who I am talking about~~

金牛座
卖瓜小贩:“快来吃西瓜,不甜不要钱!”
饥渴的牛牛:“哇!太好了,老板,来个不甜的!”
(持家、想出轨又顾全自己的金牛)

9.00pm Sunday 2November2008


Y Y

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I asked mama the date for the Chinese Lunar New Year and mama says that she dosen't know as there isn't any 2009 calendar at home. My mama asked why do I need to know as it is like still months away. Well, it was that we need to file for our leave application already. And it was still freaking early. And I have to thank Yahoo.

I'm taking 25th - 28th of January. Was wondering what if my leave application wasn't approved. It would be my third new year working in KBox. The first new year, I was given the priority by Miss Joey as I was a new staff not working there more than a month. My second year, I just convert into a full time receptionist. Mr Patrick at first told me I could not be given the leave. I told Mr Patrick if I wasn't given the leave, I would as well resign. And ya, I got my leave.

But my previous new year was spent all in bed as I was sick with high fever. I could still remember staying overnight with Aaron and Yuanjun at Mcdonalds after work then play basketball after that. That is how I gotten sick.

As for the coming Chinese New Year, I will also want to get the leave. If not, I sompa there will be stunt coming out from me. Who freaking care that few hundred dollars of bonus? Give me a warning letter?

I worked even that I opposed the will of my parents. They have wanted me to be a good student and study hard in school. Work for what? They always asked me.. Imagine if they get the news that I have to work and not spend the festive season with them?

Well, New Year at my family is always fun as my papa is the eldest son. So all his sibling, my uncles and cousins would come over and celebrate. And we are a big family, if you want me to come up with a family tree, I really didn't know where should I start from. What I want to say over here is that, YA, I MISS MY RELATIVES! AND I ONLY GET TO SEE THEM THAT FEW TIMES EVERY YEAR! SO, DON'T ROB ME OF MY CHANCE OF GATHERING WITH MY RELATIVES!

5.00pm Sunday 02November2008


Y Y

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Case 2
One of our regular customer came..

Customer: How much is one cake huh?
Me: $18++
Customer: Can $18 minus minus?
Me: Haha.. You dun act cute lah..
Customer: This one your manager hor? Dun like dat lah.. Can $18 minus minus? We got 2 people birthday leh..
Louis: Haha.. You ask her lor.. Her rank bigger than me.. Ok lah, free you the cake then..

Then my brain is like stop functioning for the next 10 minutes.


After reading loads of my entries, I'm sure all of you would come into a conclusion:
Louis = Angel
Me = Demon

So, in this world, you need people like Louis and me, so that we could then in turn neutralise out..

Actually is my bad for this, many times I really forgets that Louis is my superior. Ask him to do this, to do that for me. When he says or do something, I questioned him the why like this, why like that and then will tell him like this no good, like that no good. When not happy with his decisions, I will grumble then throw a temper..

So, before case 2, there is case 1 which of course that leads to case 2..

Case 1
Mr Sam made a reservation for a room for 8 person. I asked him how do I charge him? And he says charge as 6 person.

When the customer came, he looks for Mr Sam, and I says he is not around and then he wants to look for Louis.

By the way, I really hate customers coming in and look for our supervisor machiam they are very close friends and act friendly when they actually are not that close. These customer usually want to be charge cheap cheap and special special price for them.

As a skilled and experienced receptionist, I analyze this batch of customer, really not high spender look face, stingy type as I asked hin open liquor he don't want. And he is really not a very close regular customer to Mr Sam if so, Mr Sam will me to hold a room for them and side order and not only minus just 2 pax, and if this man is really a high spender, Mr Sam would have earlier asked me to give him the room with pool.

So it turns up Louis give them our room with pool which I kept empty because it is a room of high value! I am totally freaking damn angry!

Me: Why you give them that room?
Louis: Your tow kay say one wor..
Me: Really meh, he tell me "D" room only leh.. And why only count 4 pax?
Louis: Really wor, I just phone him, he say one..
Me: He just came leh, I ask him, he never say give that room one leh.. Don't play taiji hor..
Louis: Aiyah.. give already.. plus if didn't give then it is also empty mah..
Me: Walau, if I know I just now 2 pax customer also give that room to keep it occupied..
Louis: Aiyah.. 人家气我我不气..

I mean I really dislike customer who are not willing to spend yet want to use that room which offer them pool games. Bring girls come out happy and not willing to spend! And his bill is like what? $200? KNN!!!! I have rooms spending up more than $500 and they are more nice and classy people which I think giving them the room is of a better choice lor!

AND REALLY TMD!!! This customer won a MP3 during lucky draw!!! Dunno what dog shit luck he has. And he smile at me, I smiled back. Come on lah.. I have already master the art of faking a smile..

Me: I'm very bad hor?
Louis: Ya lor..

我也不想的...

5.30am Sunday 02November2008




THAT PRINCESSY

SILING
Loves Traveling
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Places/Attractions VisitedY

Malaysia
-Sabah
-Melacca
-Johor Bahru
-Penang
-Ipoh
-Cameron Highlands
-Genting Highlands
-Pulau Langkawi
-Pulau Redang
Indonesia
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Thailand
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South Korea
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China
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Hong Kong
Australia
-Gold Coast

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45kg
Visit Japan
Visit North Korea
Visit New York
Vist Australia
Visit Africa

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Sheryl's cooking
Joey
aili
serene
junrong
weiling
chris
zaiyong
minqi
xinhui



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Jurong Bird Park
Botanical Garden
Zoological Garden
Haw Par Villa
The Singapore Flyer
Science Centre
Escape Theme Park



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