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Lets drink again soon~~ >.<
2.00pm Monday 31August2009
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Thursday, August 27, 2009 - 3:45 AM Y
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That day one guy asked me how do I forget the guy I have once love so much quickly? I did. But not yet totally or perhaps I didn't really love so much at all. It really dosen't matter anymore to me. As a matter of fact, there is no more love, just that there is still some beautiful memories worth looking back. It have all blurred, the jigsaw puzzle is losing more and more pieces as the day pass. I predict eventually the pieces of the puzzle will be lost in a few years time. I guess I had turn it all into hatred. I was watching a variety show today, a psychologist said: 爱得多深, 恨得多深.
Looking back at the past, those were failed, unsucessful, fruitless, ineffective and unglam relationship. I feel like throwing up the meals I had for last week. Time to summarise them up for a conclusion, time to grow up and have a new beginning.
From love to suspicion to lies to confusion to TRUTH to quarelling to frustration and turns to hatred.
My friend tried to convince me that I have never been attach. Induce me with the thought that, those were "puppy love", telling me that they are the "foolish times".
Looking at my friend, I realise that a past relationship can still haunt you, torment you and brings you agony even after a few years.
Failure in relationships should not bring phobia in love to me, it shall not hinder my way in my next relationship. I have love from my family and friends. But I have never been truly loved in a romantic way.
4.30am Thursday 27 August2009
Looking back at the past, those were failed, unsucessful, fruitless, ineffective and unglam relationship. I feel like throwing up the meals I had for last week. Time to summarise them up for a conclusion, time to grow up and have a new beginning.
From love to suspicion to lies to confusion to TRUTH to quarelling to frustration and turns to hatred.
My friend tried to convince me that I have never been attach. Induce me with the thought that, those were "puppy love", telling me that they are the "foolish times".
Looking at my friend, I realise that a past relationship can still haunt you, torment you and brings you agony even after a few years.
Failure in relationships should not bring phobia in love to me, it shall not hinder my way in my next relationship. I have love from my family and friends. But I have never been truly loved in a romantic way.
4.30am Thursday 27 August2009
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Tuesday, August 25, 2009 - 9:58 PM Y
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Now in Kbox, with Yvonne at K19. It is good to be with someone trusted, not fake, real. Sometimes, through talks and chit chatting, people reflect and learn maybe it is a sort of therapy too.
What is the motive that makes people goes around hurting other people? They didn't mean to? Worst still, they didn't even know that they did hurt anyone? Or they just simply want to protect themselves for a win-win situation?
Things may be complicated. Or was it that we look at simple things too complicatedly? Some things we could not use logic to understand.
10.25pm Tuesday 25August2009
What is the motive that makes people goes around hurting other people? They didn't mean to? Worst still, they didn't even know that they did hurt anyone? Or they just simply want to protect themselves for a win-win situation?
Things may be complicated. Or was it that we look at simple things too complicatedly? Some things we could not use logic to understand.
10.25pm Tuesday 25August2009
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True sisters is like this. That day, few days ago, Qing asked me to eat Bak Kut Teh with her and papa and mama. I was still like considering because of my lousy mood due to someone "perfect enough" with high rank in the company complain about me machiam that I really care (Fine, I really care) and Qing said this: Go eat Bak Kut Teh with me lah~~ I'll let you take pictures of me 啃骨头~~
Remember that however down you might be, parents and siblings will always be there.
I was complaining about others to Yvonne on the phone today, then this guy come out an give me this type of look, the type of expression, as if I'm like an idiot or a pest. Yes, I knew complaning, grumbling, self centered, being the current me is not very glam. Sometimes, these were things you know, you would want to change but difficult...
Women are sensitive creatures. I will take everything seriously, even some small things like whether you went out with her for dinner and never ask me along sort, I will take what people say to heart such as whether what he says is just for laughter or is sarcasm. But well, I am not clever enough to differentiate them correctly.
Women can be fake. This is very scary. Even I'm frightened of myself in certain ways. Undeniably, most women is like me. We can hate this person right to the core, wish her dead, yet we can still hang out, smile and talk to each other, laugh out loud together.
3.45am Tuesdau25August2009
Remember that however down you might be, parents and siblings will always be there.
I was complaining about others to Yvonne on the phone today, then this guy come out an give me this type of look, the type of expression, as if I'm like an idiot or a pest. Yes, I knew complaning, grumbling, self centered, being the current me is not very glam. Sometimes, these were things you know, you would want to change but difficult...
Women are sensitive creatures. I will take everything seriously, even some small things like whether you went out with her for dinner and never ask me along sort, I will take what people say to heart such as whether what he says is just for laughter or is sarcasm. But well, I am not clever enough to differentiate them correctly.
Women can be fake. This is very scary. Even I'm frightened of myself in certain ways. Undeniably, most women is like me. We can hate this person right to the core, wish her dead, yet we can still hang out, smile and talk to each other, laugh out loud together.
3.45am Tuesdau25August2009
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Friday, August 21, 2009 - 3:54 PM Y
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Baked Banana Muffin today. Didn't really know how it taste because I'm not into fruits, but I guess it tast alright. And it didn't look as good as the one in the recipe book. Just want to try something different other than cheese cakes and cookies. Tried making banana muffin when I was preparing for N Level or Ok, I remember, it was secondary 2, home economics class? We were 14. YiJing and I baked Banana Muffin for a semester test and she came over my house for a trial practice. It was fun. The old days.
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Went Suki with Joey yesterday, were super duper full that I keep on complaining that I am full till the throat every few seconds after we leave the reataurant until Joey get quite irritated. We went to watch movie, The Proposal. Funny. I believe HuiMin laugh the loudest in the whole cinema, feel like hiding underneath the seat. HAHA~~
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16.30pm Friday 21August2009
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Tuesday, August 18, 2009 - 2:26 PM Y
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Just after my previous blog, went into the living room and mama didn't want to talk to me. After telling her I'm hungry in my 撒娇 tone, she then blurt out her dissatisfaction with me drinking and threatened me that if I should drink again, I might as well quit my job. She says I have learnt nothing good here. She says drinking will 失态..
Erm.. I've already make a deal to drink with Yvonne next week.
Even 还珠格格 & 紫微格格 drinks...
2.45pm Tuesday 18August2009
Erm.. I've already make a deal to drink with Yvonne next week.
Even 还珠格格 & 紫微格格 drinks...
2.45pm Tuesday 18August2009
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Drunk. On purpose. I don't know how to say what I'm thinking. Just decided to drink more and more when knows that he dosen't seems to care at all. Just like 范范's new song lyrics - 什么年纪? 还傻得可以. Women can do many stupid things to catch attention from men they love.
Drink. All I could say is just making ownself miserable. Felt so uncomfortable, dizzy that I feel like jumping off from my 9th storey flat when I woke up, if not I can burn some charcoal inside my room and die a painless death. Dig my throat to make myself throw up but perhaps I've already vomitted quite a lot, I have nothing left for me to vomit. Force myself quite a lot of plain water down my throat. All I can taste is alcohol. Took a cab down to work as I have no more strength. And once I alighted, the kick come. Wohoo!! Damn. So embarrassed, people might think I have contracted a diesease or I'm pregnant as I continue throwing up non stop that it made a pool of water. Who is as powerful enough like me to continue my hangover at 5pm? But this throw up makes me feels better. Now, I'm hungry.
Drank. When people drinks too much, they don't really remember what happened. So, I gather information from those who are sobber to make up my missing pieces of jigsaw puzzle and relate them back to the time frame. As from what I have get is that I've done many stupid things which I totally can't remember like going into the gents and didn't want to come out. I've also asked people to play games with me and keeps on telling them I can still drink. I lay on the floor, didn't want to leave. I've vomitted infront of my new area manager. That is disastrous. What impression will I be sending out? 
12.30pm Tuesday 18August2009
Drink. All I could say is just making ownself miserable. Felt so uncomfortable, dizzy that I feel like jumping off from my 9th storey flat when I woke up, if not I can burn some charcoal inside my room and die a painless death. Dig my throat to make myself throw up but perhaps I've already vomitted quite a lot, I have nothing left for me to vomit. Force myself quite a lot of plain water down my throat. All I can taste is alcohol. Took a cab down to work as I have no more strength. And once I alighted, the kick come. Wohoo!! Damn. So embarrassed, people might think I have contracted a diesease or I'm pregnant as I continue throwing up non stop that it made a pool of water. Who is as powerful enough like me to continue my hangover at 5pm? But this throw up makes me feels better. Now, I'm hungry.
Drank. When people drinks too much, they don't really remember what happened. So, I gather information from those who are sobber to make up my missing pieces of jigsaw puzzle and relate them back to the time frame. As from what I have get is that I've done many stupid things which I totally can't remember like going into the gents and didn't want to come out. I've also asked people to play games with me and keeps on telling them I can still drink. I lay on the floor, didn't want to leave. I've vomitted infront of my new area manager. That is disastrous. What impression will I be sending out?
12.30pm Tuesday 18August2009
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Sunday, August 16, 2009 - 2:41 PM Y
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Yesterday, the area manager came over and have a look and found many cigarette butts outside of the reception area left by those irresponsible brat and retard that parents have not educate them with the most simple and basic manners properly that even a normal 5 year old will know that where rubbish should end up in. The cleaner argued that this area's cleaning is not covered by him. His contract does not include this task.
So, the manager talk to supervisor in Cantonese:
Went for Bak Kut Teh with family at SinMing avenue. Still prefer bak kut teh in Malaysia because they taste like herbs insead of just soup with spices. Shiyi's treat as she won in Mahjong again~~
See, the tea cup is chipped. But who cares when eating bak kut teh? Wonder why people at different place have different standard to accept some things. In KBox, coffee mug chipped - throw. If not kenna customer complain when even see a tiny weeny chip. In Bak Kut Teh, tea cup chipped - like that then have the eat bak kut teh "味道".
When on the way home after bak kut teh we saw something memorable. See the basket. My papa's name is on it and "48" is his stall number in Pasir Panjang. Dunno how this Garang Guni got hold of it. My papa says it cost $10 per basket as a "deposit", I remembered in the past, my papa lost a lot of it because someone steal it from his stall.
So, the manager talk to supervisor in Cantonese:
T: Tell your receptionist to sweep.
Me: HAHA, then get me a broom.
Me: HAHA, then get me a broom.
T: You understand Cantonese?
I've tried not to be sarcastic. I told Qing today about it and she says it is ugly and not presentable to find a receptionist with a broom sweeping. Just imagine me in my receptionist uniform, holding a broom, with my manicured nice nails, nice high heels, nice hair, nice bracelet, nice Titus watch, nice anklet, nice necklace, nice perfume smell, nice ear rings and nice make up and sweeping the floor when customers come in while I say: WELCOME TO KBOX. Qing asked is our company that poor? I DON'T THINK SO. She says that since that if the company wants to add on tasks in my job scobe, so should my salary. TOTALLY AGREEABLE. I don't think the job scope of a receptionist includes sweeping floor. They say recept should not eat at reception counter because it is not presentable, so is receptionist sweeping floor being presentable?
Super fabulous yummy crispy sweet aroma smelling chocolate chips cookies even when I have forgotten to add in eggs. Taste as good as Fam*us Am*s~~!! Perhaps even better? LALA~~ Opps, must be humble~
Eating out, better to sterilise the chop sticks and etc again when possible.
Went for Bak Kut Teh with family at SinMing avenue. Still prefer bak kut teh in Malaysia because they taste like herbs insead of just soup with spices. Shiyi's treat as she won in Mahjong again~~
See, the tea cup is chipped. But who cares when eating bak kut teh? Wonder why people at different place have different standard to accept some things. In KBox, coffee mug chipped - throw. If not kenna customer complain when even see a tiny weeny chip. In Bak Kut Teh, tea cup chipped - like that then have the eat bak kut teh "味道".When on the way home after bak kut teh we saw something memorable. See the basket. My papa's name is on it and "48" is his stall number in Pasir Panjang. Dunno how this Garang Guni got hold of it. My papa says it cost $10 per basket as a "deposit", I remembered in the past, my papa lost a lot of it because someone steal it from his stall.MUAHAHA~~ Tell Qing that she should treats me nice, if not I will tag her this photo in facebook.
In this photo: SiQing and my papa's shiny forehead.
Anyway, Qing is the best sister anyone could wish for and die to have~~ I'm lucky that I have a great sister who treats me so nice~
4.00pm Sunday 16August2009
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Wohoo.. Bake chocolate chips cookies on Monday and I FAILED. It spreads out so fast machiam melting when put into oven, mama predicted that I whisk the mixture for too long. My sister and mother both disheartened me by saying it is "chow dah" and is too sweet and I threw most of them away, sad and just brought a few pieces of it to work for my colleagues. Ok, it gets chow dah because I bake at a temperature too high and I place it too long because was re-watching Huan Zhu Ge Ge at the same time.
And lala!! Most of my colleagues didn't mind the chow dah at all and says it smells great and is nice! Muahaha~~!! I shall bake again this weekend. Then next week shall try muffins.
At work, I'm getting bored. Not because I'm getting sick and tired of the job. Just that NO CUSTOMERS, I thought economic crisis is even worse a few months ago, now should be better? So, I come up with that the promotions now going on isn't attractive enough.
Sometimes, people like me who have some senses do not like people to tell me to do this or do that at work. I knew what to do but just a matter of I want to do/I do not want to do/later then I do/not necessary to do/not in my job scobe (should be the server's job). Have I reach the bottle peak at work?
A few days ago, this brat give me attitude at work. Make me super fucking damn angry. But I'm acting blurr trying hard to keep my cool to avoid volcano from erupting. I'm a receptionist, not a server, clearing a room is not my job scobe, so I will help out, do you a damn fucking favor if I'm in the mood. Plus in this world, if you are that fucking damn good damn hard working I won't mind helping out, but are you? Sometimes people should reflect first upon themselves. WHAT PISS ME OFF IS THAT A PERSON WHO ISN'T EVEN AT THE BORDER LINE TO BE CLASSIFIED AS "GOOD" THOUGHT HE IS VERY GREAT. GREAT ENOUGH TO COMMENT ON OTHERS.
People thought that receptionist is so damn free and easy but we are not. When we are busy when we are stress, we are alone. Servers have the other servers around to help out each other. Who is there when the customers come out to me placing an order, and at the same time new batch of customers coming in, waiting for me to allocate them a room and explain the charge? Who is there for me when four of my telephone lines is ringing during peak periods? Who is there to help me when wierd uncles disturb me and I still have to be nice? Who is there to help me to upsell my packages? All I can say is that I don't need their help, BECAUSE I CAN DAMN FUCKING HELL ABLE TO HANDLE MY JOB AND TASKS SO THEY THOUGHT BEING A RECEPTIONIST IS AN EASY TASK.
11.45am Wednesday 12August2009
And lala!! Most of my colleagues didn't mind the chow dah at all and says it smells great and is nice! Muahaha~~!! I shall bake again this weekend. Then next week shall try muffins.
At work, I'm getting bored. Not because I'm getting sick and tired of the job. Just that NO CUSTOMERS, I thought economic crisis is even worse a few months ago, now should be better? So, I come up with that the promotions now going on isn't attractive enough.
Sometimes, people like me who have some senses do not like people to tell me to do this or do that at work. I knew what to do but just a matter of I want to do/I do not want to do/later then I do/not necessary to do/not in my job scobe (should be the server's job). Have I reach the bottle peak at work?
A few days ago, this brat give me attitude at work. Make me super fucking damn angry. But I'm acting blurr trying hard to keep my cool to avoid volcano from erupting. I'm a receptionist, not a server, clearing a room is not my job scobe, so I will help out, do you a damn fucking favor if I'm in the mood. Plus in this world, if you are that fucking damn good damn hard working I won't mind helping out, but are you? Sometimes people should reflect first upon themselves. WHAT PISS ME OFF IS THAT A PERSON WHO ISN'T EVEN AT THE BORDER LINE TO BE CLASSIFIED AS "GOOD" THOUGHT HE IS VERY GREAT. GREAT ENOUGH TO COMMENT ON OTHERS.
People thought that receptionist is so damn free and easy but we are not. When we are busy when we are stress, we are alone. Servers have the other servers around to help out each other. Who is there when the customers come out to me placing an order, and at the same time new batch of customers coming in, waiting for me to allocate them a room and explain the charge? Who is there for me when four of my telephone lines is ringing during peak periods? Who is there to help me when wierd uncles disturb me and I still have to be nice? Who is there to help me to upsell my packages? All I can say is that I don't need their help, BECAUSE I CAN DAMN FUCKING HELL ABLE TO HANDLE MY JOB AND TASKS SO THEY THOUGHT BEING A RECEPTIONIST IS AN EASY TASK.
11.45am Wednesday 12August2009
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Sunday, August 9, 2009 - 4:12 PM Y
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I decided not to declare war with my mother in the kitchen today as my mother is preparing for dinner already and I've woken up too late. I've decided to make chocolate chips cookies tmr, have already bought the ingredients.
Becoming more ah soh each day and I vow never purchase things from NTUC again after today. I bought butter at $2.50 at NTUC and saw the same butter at Sheng Siong at only $2.10. Yesterday I bought Oreo biscuits at $2.65 at NTUC and it cost only $1.95 from Sheng Siong. It just proves that I've never went grocery shopping for quite a long time already. Maybe I should do price comparing before I should buy anything. You know, Food and Nutrition class in secondary school actually did taught us price comparing. But didn't care. Just that I didn't thought that charges different is so huge between NTUC and Sheng Siong. Thought NTUC was supposed to be cheap.
Misses F & N classes in secondary school, now then I can understand it was so much fun. They taught me how to make pizza and agar agar. Mrs Yeo and Miss Rosemalina, you were fantastic teachers. Now which I am ashames that I have already totally forget how to makes them already, my bad.
I swear I will take great care of my kitchen in the future. Equipments and etc. You know, now I can totally understand that when people reaches different stages of life, they go for different things. Now, I may go for cosmetics and clothes. I see myself twenty years later (maybe in a few years time if I can successfully becoming a housewife but it will be better to be a taitai~) looking out for knifes, pots and pans. Like how when me and my mother go to a departmental store, she goes to the section with pots and cutlinary equipments while I'm usually at the cosmetics section.
There was once years ago when my mother bought some cooking equipments set which altogether cost more than thousand dollars. I thought she was crazy. Now, I totally understand her. It was a money that could not be save, the equipments is essential.
4.50pm Sunday 9th August 2009
Happy birthday Singapore! I ask mama if I could hang Malaysia flag outside our flat and will the police catch me?
She says definitely. Not fair!
Becoming more ah soh each day and I vow never purchase things from NTUC again after today. I bought butter at $2.50 at NTUC and saw the same butter at Sheng Siong at only $2.10. Yesterday I bought Oreo biscuits at $2.65 at NTUC and it cost only $1.95 from Sheng Siong. It just proves that I've never went grocery shopping for quite a long time already. Maybe I should do price comparing before I should buy anything. You know, Food and Nutrition class in secondary school actually did taught us price comparing. But didn't care. Just that I didn't thought that charges different is so huge between NTUC and Sheng Siong. Thought NTUC was supposed to be cheap.
Misses F & N classes in secondary school, now then I can understand it was so much fun. They taught me how to make pizza and agar agar. Mrs Yeo and Miss Rosemalina, you were fantastic teachers. Now which I am ashames that I have already totally forget how to makes them already, my bad.
I swear I will take great care of my kitchen in the future. Equipments and etc. You know, now I can totally understand that when people reaches different stages of life, they go for different things. Now, I may go for cosmetics and clothes. I see myself twenty years later (maybe in a few years time if I can successfully becoming a housewife but it will be better to be a taitai~) looking out for knifes, pots and pans. Like how when me and my mother go to a departmental store, she goes to the section with pots and cutlinary equipments while I'm usually at the cosmetics section.
There was once years ago when my mother bought some cooking equipments set which altogether cost more than thousand dollars. I thought she was crazy. Now, I totally understand her. It was a money that could not be save, the equipments is essential.
4.50pm Sunday 9th August 2009
Happy birthday Singapore! I ask mama if I could hang Malaysia flag outside our flat and will the police catch me?
She says definitely. Not fair!
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So, if you want to say what century are we in now? Husband still needs to give wife money to spend and pamper herself? Ok, maybe this applies to capable men with the ability to earn quite a bit of income. Hmm, different people thinks differently. Fine if you do not agree with me. Like what I say long time before. Must depend on how much will the wife love the husband. If the husband is a great nice men and treats her best with his entire life, I believe the wife will don't even mind if the husband is poor and can't even afford a refrigerator or air conditioning at home. When will this men who is willing to love me with his entire heart, mind, soul and life appear?
Anyway, woke up rather early today and decide to bake cheese cake as promise to Joy. She makes me Almond DRINK. Must emphasize on it because it was suppose to be Almond Jelly. LALA~~ I want to bake this Apple Crumbled Cake with Fatty Qing tmr but she says she will not be at home. -.-" Whats more important than accompanying her cute little sister to do something like sisters with good feelings will do, like baking a cake together? Shall check up recipe book and decide what should I do tomorrow~~
I want to be a someone who can make all sorts of CNY biscuits and cookies, makes delicious rice dumpling, make moon cake, cook 汤圆 and someone who can come up with 8 dishes 2 soups for the family!
The Oreo Cheese Cake and Chocolate Cheese Cake~~!!
3.15pm Saturday 8th August2009
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Friday, August 7, 2009 - 12:29 PM Y
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So, I didn't know how my salary turns up to zero savings per month. How come? No men dares to marry women who spends money like nothing even if he is rich. Maybe I could be like an accounting freak who will record everything down on a notebook like this:
Bus fare 0800: $1.10
Curry Puff 1000: $0.90
Fish noodle with egg 1300: $2.50
Maybelline's eyeliner (From watson) 1400: $21.90
Bus fare 1700: $1.10
Bubble tea 1730: $2.40
Total Spending: $39.90
Take down what the money you spend on and take note of the time. Better if you keep a reciept and clip it on for reference. -.-"
Was wondering if being a receptionist, I earn this amount of salary. What about being someone's wife? It is also a occupation. How much will my husband, my employer gives me?
I came up with this question during work yesterday when I was having this conversation with Louis about my job scobe at work, I'm only worth so little so I might as well just do what I'm worth of. Yes, although I have heard his standard answer before, sometimes you just want to be childish, and wants another answer because his once acceptable answer you somehow find a flaw in it. Sometimes you find the supervisor here have the power and magic to brainwash people for a while before they get back to their senses.
If you get paid $2000, you do what a $2000 will do, you will continue to get $2000. No pay raise unless you give in more. AND WHEN YOU REACH A CERTAIN LIMIT, YOU STOP PROMOTING. BULLSHIT. RECEPTIONIST HIGHTEST PROMOTION WILL STILL BE A RECEPTIONIST. NONSENSE.
How much does a wife earns? Depends on the employer.
2.25pm Friday 7thAugust2009
Bus fare 0800: $1.10
Curry Puff 1000: $0.90
Fish noodle with egg 1300: $2.50
Maybelline's eyeliner (From watson) 1400: $21.90
Bus fare 1700: $1.10
Bubble tea 1730: $2.40
Total Spending: $39.90
Take down what the money you spend on and take note of the time. Better if you keep a reciept and clip it on for reference. -.-"
Was wondering if being a receptionist, I earn this amount of salary. What about being someone's wife? It is also a occupation. How much will my husband, my employer gives me?
I came up with this question during work yesterday when I was having this conversation with Louis about my job scobe at work, I'm only worth so little so I might as well just do what I'm worth of. Yes, although I have heard his standard answer before, sometimes you just want to be childish, and wants another answer because his once acceptable answer you somehow find a flaw in it. Sometimes you find the supervisor here have the power and magic to brainwash people for a while before they get back to their senses.
If you get paid $2000, you do what a $2000 will do, you will continue to get $2000. No pay raise unless you give in more. AND WHEN YOU REACH A CERTAIN LIMIT, YOU STOP PROMOTING. BULLSHIT. RECEPTIONIST HIGHTEST PROMOTION WILL STILL BE A RECEPTIONIST. NONSENSE.
How much does a wife earns? Depends on the employer.
2.25pm Friday 7thAugust2009
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Meet up with Cindy. Enjoy lunch at Swensen then HK Cafe for Hi-Tea. Cindy is now air stewardess. Envy her life flying here and there. She is going New York at her next flight. Can I have super power to teleport anywhere I want? She says it is nothing to envy of as anyone can fly too if they could afford air tickets.
It is good that women should meet up with other women occassionally so that they can have some "lady talk". So, currently I have 8 ear piercings. After talking with Cindy, I felt so tempted to leave it back to one pair so that I can look more "Demure". Men looks for wife material should be those "demure" type. Then can bring home and tell their parents: I want to take her as my wife and grow old together with her.
This is also important because of the impression you might give his parents. One day if my son brings back a women with many ear piercings, hair dyed, naval piercing and tattoos, I might go insane, thinking she is just a materialistic women, what type of grandchildren will she gives me? Even I myself condemn people with many ear piercings, how can I persuade people to accept me?
Meet up with Yvonne. Watched Overheard. After movie, we had some chat. And I felt enlightened. Watching her was as if I'm watching myself in the past relationships.
I'm not going to say there is right or wrong in a relationship as there is different points of views. One might look at things seriously, the other one might thought it is not important.
That guy who lie to me that he have a girlfriend for 8 years, will marry her girlfriend of 8 years might just be a nice guy who dosen't want to hurt my feelings. Afterall, that girlfriend of 8 years might not even exist, guys his type just prefer women who are skinnier, whiter, taller and prettier, more demure, more ladylike more gentle. I would now thank him that he lie to me that he had a girlfriend for 8 years, want to marry her girlfriend of 8 years instead of telling me: SiLing, you are just not my type of women, I like pretty women with better figure. It was a mistake.
Thank you Mr HET for making me realise that I still needs more experience in understanding men. I'm not being sarcastic. To speak truthfully, I really am grateful. Sometimes men create lies in order not to hurt women. But women still be angry anyway no matter if men lies to her, or tell her the truth.
Women is difficult to understand. Even I myself also do not quite understand. Imagine a scenario which I think if one day would happen to me, I do not know how to react too. Scenario: Men have another women outside.
Men: I have a mistress outside.
Women: You bastard, why don't you keep it as a secret? I do not want to know, how can I be together with you anymore?
If women found out men have a mistress and men is hiding her from the news.
Women: You bastard, how come don't tell me so I can leave you earlier instead of wasting my youth?
I realise that when a women just gets out of a relationship, she feels like storming straight to the guy and ask him: Did you really love me before?
Thank you Mr Yellow. Guys will always says something like: I think you are too young, I think you are really a nice girl who can find someone better, I think we are really not compatible.
Now, looking back, what he says is not serious, it is just entertaining you. It is just what guys always says when they want to get rid of women in a friendlier way. Now I realise, once a relationship is over, its over. No point asking for an answer, no more point wanting the real answer. No point telling him anything anymore. It dosen't matter anymore as ITS OVER. Its over, its over, its over. No point thinking and cursing, no point figuring out whose fault was it or whatever. Its over. All you can do is to reflect.
Yes, when a women is just out of a relationship, it felt as if the world have crumbled down. She blames and she cursed. Once she heals when time passes, she sees things differently and eventually thinks differently. She felt wiser each time.
When women is out of a relationship, she just wants to prove to the men that without him, she can still be happy and life is still great. But it is not. Men isn't clever enough to understand how sad you are. How heart broken you are. Men will never thought that you will cry yourself to sleep at night. The happiness she display is just fake. She will go shopping, go for movies go for karaoke singing with her friends. She just wants to heal herself, she don't want to be alone and she don't want to think negatively and feels like a loser. She can suddenly cut her long hair to a extremely short one, she can suddenly wears sexily, wear high heels and laugh loudly. But what she displays isn't what she's feeling inside.
She just dosen't want the men to think that without him, life sucks. But the fact to her is, life sucks without him. But eventually, she will gets over it. Like I did.
11.45am Wednesday 5thAugust2009
It is good that women should meet up with other women occassionally so that they can have some "lady talk". So, currently I have 8 ear piercings. After talking with Cindy, I felt so tempted to leave it back to one pair so that I can look more "Demure". Men looks for wife material should be those "demure" type. Then can bring home and tell their parents: I want to take her as my wife and grow old together with her.
This is also important because of the impression you might give his parents. One day if my son brings back a women with many ear piercings, hair dyed, naval piercing and tattoos, I might go insane, thinking she is just a materialistic women, what type of grandchildren will she gives me? Even I myself condemn people with many ear piercings, how can I persuade people to accept me?
Meet up with Yvonne. Watched Overheard. After movie, we had some chat. And I felt enlightened. Watching her was as if I'm watching myself in the past relationships.
I'm not going to say there is right or wrong in a relationship as there is different points of views. One might look at things seriously, the other one might thought it is not important.
That guy who lie to me that he have a girlfriend for 8 years, will marry her girlfriend of 8 years might just be a nice guy who dosen't want to hurt my feelings. Afterall, that girlfriend of 8 years might not even exist, guys his type just prefer women who are skinnier, whiter, taller and prettier, more demure, more ladylike more gentle. I would now thank him that he lie to me that he had a girlfriend for 8 years, want to marry her girlfriend of 8 years instead of telling me: SiLing, you are just not my type of women, I like pretty women with better figure. It was a mistake.
Thank you Mr HET for making me realise that I still needs more experience in understanding men. I'm not being sarcastic. To speak truthfully, I really am grateful. Sometimes men create lies in order not to hurt women. But women still be angry anyway no matter if men lies to her, or tell her the truth.
Women is difficult to understand. Even I myself also do not quite understand. Imagine a scenario which I think if one day would happen to me, I do not know how to react too. Scenario: Men have another women outside.
Men: I have a mistress outside.
Women: You bastard, why don't you keep it as a secret? I do not want to know, how can I be together with you anymore?
If women found out men have a mistress and men is hiding her from the news.
Women: You bastard, how come don't tell me so I can leave you earlier instead of wasting my youth?
I realise that when a women just gets out of a relationship, she feels like storming straight to the guy and ask him: Did you really love me before?
Thank you Mr Yellow. Guys will always says something like: I think you are too young, I think you are really a nice girl who can find someone better, I think we are really not compatible.
Now, looking back, what he says is not serious, it is just entertaining you. It is just what guys always says when they want to get rid of women in a friendlier way. Now I realise, once a relationship is over, its over. No point asking for an answer, no more point wanting the real answer. No point telling him anything anymore. It dosen't matter anymore as ITS OVER. Its over, its over, its over. No point thinking and cursing, no point figuring out whose fault was it or whatever. Its over. All you can do is to reflect.
Yes, when a women is just out of a relationship, it felt as if the world have crumbled down. She blames and she cursed. Once she heals when time passes, she sees things differently and eventually thinks differently. She felt wiser each time.
When women is out of a relationship, she just wants to prove to the men that without him, she can still be happy and life is still great. But it is not. Men isn't clever enough to understand how sad you are. How heart broken you are. Men will never thought that you will cry yourself to sleep at night. The happiness she display is just fake. She will go shopping, go for movies go for karaoke singing with her friends. She just wants to heal herself, she don't want to be alone and she don't want to think negatively and feels like a loser. She can suddenly cut her long hair to a extremely short one, she can suddenly wears sexily, wear high heels and laugh loudly. But what she displays isn't what she's feeling inside.
She just dosen't want the men to think that without him, life sucks. But the fact to her is, life sucks without him. But eventually, she will gets over it. Like I did.
11.45am Wednesday 5thAugust2009
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Tuesday, August 4, 2009 - 9:51 AM Y
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Felt damn tempted to open an annonymous blog account to blog stuff that is R21. Have plenty to blog about. Fantasy and desire.
For example: I will never want to marry a men who works night shift. I think I will not have fantastic _ _ _ with sun shining outside brightly at our naked butt. So, my dream job will be office hour timing.
I realised for my modules this semester, my grades is better at this module. Perhaps because my team members are cute young guys. But sexy wise men is more attractive.
Really, while listening to MP3, it was really machiam living in your own world. Yesterday, I very rarely have the mood to go jogging at the stadium then there was this S League thingy going on. Damn. I hate stadium because there isn't trees for sheltering you from the Sun. But whatever, it was like 7 pm, no sun in the evening.
Then after jogging, I went home and took bball to play at 850. Saw this guy whom I will never forget in my life, when I was like in primary 6, he threw this bball which accidentaly hit me in my face and then I got blood clot on my lip. Which I need to laser it away when only it really faded away when I was almost in secondary 4. Out of point, all I want to say is that blasting Ayumi's songs and playing basketball at the same time just feel good. Enjoy the music and enjoy bball.
I'm hungry. I eat. I exercise. My weight is stuck. But its ok, no rush.
Ok, I just had my lunch and my best friend in secondary school asked me out for lunch. As a matter of fact, I'm excited as I haven't seen her for quite a long time already. I'm going to meet her for lunch. My second lunch. A sin. And will be commiting a more sinful sin by eating at Swensen.
12.15pm Tuesday 4th August2009
For example: I will never want to marry a men who works night shift. I think I will not have fantastic _ _ _ with sun shining outside brightly at our naked butt. So, my dream job will be office hour timing.
I realised for my modules this semester, my grades is better at this module. Perhaps because my team members are cute young guys. But sexy wise men is more attractive.
Really, while listening to MP3, it was really machiam living in your own world. Yesterday, I very rarely have the mood to go jogging at the stadium then there was this S League thingy going on. Damn. I hate stadium because there isn't trees for sheltering you from the Sun. But whatever, it was like 7 pm, no sun in the evening.
Then after jogging, I went home and took bball to play at 850. Saw this guy whom I will never forget in my life, when I was like in primary 6, he threw this bball which accidentaly hit me in my face and then I got blood clot on my lip. Which I need to laser it away when only it really faded away when I was almost in secondary 4. Out of point, all I want to say is that blasting Ayumi's songs and playing basketball at the same time just feel good. Enjoy the music and enjoy bball.
I'm hungry. I eat. I exercise. My weight is stuck. But its ok, no rush.
Ok, I just had my lunch and my best friend in secondary school asked me out for lunch. As a matter of fact, I'm excited as I haven't seen her for quite a long time already. I'm going to meet her for lunch. My second lunch. A sin. And will be commiting a more sinful sin by eating at Swensen.
12.15pm Tuesday 4th August2009
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Monday, August 3, 2009 - 10:26 AM Y
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Taking leave from work, hoping to get some rest at home.
I have always done things halfway, or will give up easily.
So, there was this customer who ask me something that I can't answer.
Customer: How come I saw you longer than he is here and he is captain and you are not?
Me:Oh, different department I guess.
Customer: Last time you wear t-shirt. How come you change into receptionist? A promotion?
Me: Eh.. Nope, almost the same, not a promotion.
Customer: Oh, then how come you change?
Erm, kill me. I also want to ask myself this question. Life is like this to me, sometimes you makes the wrong decision. And regret it. You wasted time. You feel like rewinding back time. You will give anything just to turn back time.
If I can start my life all over, I will never even want to lay a foot in KBox, continue life at studies. I will not eat ice, or start my addiction to bubble tea. If only I can return to primary 5, I will never pick basketball as my CCA, I will never play basketball under the sun so that I can be a Snow White now. I will help my parents at their vegetable stall without complain and enjoy taking allowance from my parents.
In life, I make plenty of mistakes. How will I make amendments to those mistakes?
10.45am Monday 3August2009
Yesterday I was having this conversation with Yvonne.
Yvonne: Haiz.. 为什么男人那么快就放得下?
Me: 因为男人比较拿得起, 放得下.
Yvonne: Hmm.. 不是, 因为男人根本没有拿起, 何必放下?
Felt cheated (By men, not Yvonne).
11.15am Monday 3August2009
Sometimes I really think I shouldn't blog so much. For others not to know too much of not the good and pretty side of me. But this is me.
爱疯了, think I almost have 妄想症. Tell something irrelevant, idiotic and stupid to customer which I feel like standing at a corner and facing the wall for the rest of my life.
So, this customer asked me my age AGAIN yesterday, he asked about my age before, guess men are flirts and forgot they even asked me before.
Customer: I guess you haven't 30.
Me: Wow, thanks. I'm happy.
Customer: So how old are you?
Me: 28, same as my supervisor. (I'm just 21!!!)
So he literally "drags" me inside to have a drink with him, I actually believe him when he says just to drink green tea because he says so. See? Men are liars. We drank whisky. While drinking, I'm still considering the calories I am gulping down my throat. End up we play dice and I am wrong to take up his challenge and he says he is the God of dice and boast that even my supervisor is his diciple in this game. Men always wants to show that they are better and others are inferior compared to them. So everytime he speaks he was so near me that I could feel his breath on my neck that I felt machiam he will molest me any moment if not bite me and suck out all my blood. Good idea, I can lose some weight this way too. Ok, like what Alvin and Lionel says, I'm Pork, not Halal, people wouldn't want to eat me.
Maybe I should coward myself behind of the reception counter and never go anywhere because this customer who have been patronizing regularly as a big spender for quite some time and thought I'm tall. I wear heels, but didn't wear it yesterday because my leg hurts and he comment something like: You always stand behind the counter I thought you are tall, but now standing beside you, WOW, you are short!
12.00noon Monday 3August2009
I have always done things halfway, or will give up easily.
So, there was this customer who ask me something that I can't answer.
Customer: How come I saw you longer than he is here and he is captain and you are not?
Me:Oh, different department I guess.
Customer: Last time you wear t-shirt. How come you change into receptionist? A promotion?
Me: Eh.. Nope, almost the same, not a promotion.
Customer: Oh, then how come you change?
Erm, kill me. I also want to ask myself this question. Life is like this to me, sometimes you makes the wrong decision. And regret it. You wasted time. You feel like rewinding back time. You will give anything just to turn back time.
If I can start my life all over, I will never even want to lay a foot in KBox, continue life at studies. I will not eat ice, or start my addiction to bubble tea. If only I can return to primary 5, I will never pick basketball as my CCA, I will never play basketball under the sun so that I can be a Snow White now. I will help my parents at their vegetable stall without complain and enjoy taking allowance from my parents.
In life, I make plenty of mistakes. How will I make amendments to those mistakes?
10.45am Monday 3August2009
Yesterday I was having this conversation with Yvonne.
Yvonne: Haiz.. 为什么男人那么快就放得下?
Me: 因为男人比较拿得起, 放得下.
Yvonne: Hmm.. 不是, 因为男人根本没有拿起, 何必放下?
Felt cheated (By men, not Yvonne).
11.15am Monday 3August2009
Sometimes I really think I shouldn't blog so much. For others not to know too much of not the good and pretty side of me. But this is me.
爱疯了, think I almost have 妄想症. Tell something irrelevant, idiotic and stupid to customer which I feel like standing at a corner and facing the wall for the rest of my life.
So, this customer asked me my age AGAIN yesterday, he asked about my age before, guess men are flirts and forgot they even asked me before.
Customer: I guess you haven't 30.
Me: Wow, thanks. I'm happy.
Customer: So how old are you?
Me: 28, same as my supervisor. (I'm just 21!!!)
So he literally "drags" me inside to have a drink with him, I actually believe him when he says just to drink green tea because he says so. See? Men are liars. We drank whisky. While drinking, I'm still considering the calories I am gulping down my throat. End up we play dice and I am wrong to take up his challenge and he says he is the God of dice and boast that even my supervisor is his diciple in this game. Men always wants to show that they are better and others are inferior compared to them. So everytime he speaks he was so near me that I could feel his breath on my neck that I felt machiam he will molest me any moment if not bite me and suck out all my blood. Good idea, I can lose some weight this way too. Ok, like what Alvin and Lionel says, I'm Pork, not Halal, people wouldn't want to eat me.
Maybe I should coward myself behind of the reception counter and never go anywhere because this customer who have been patronizing regularly as a big spender for quite some time and thought I'm tall. I wear heels, but didn't wear it yesterday because my leg hurts and he comment something like: You always stand behind the counter I thought you are tall, but now standing beside you, WOW, you are short!
12.00noon Monday 3August2009
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Sunday, August 2, 2009 - 3:29 PM Y
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Yesterday I went to gym. It makes loads of determination and perseverance to stay on a machine for 30 minutes now. But I succeed anyway. Anyway, I have to let my heart rate maintain at a specific range so that it is fat burning and not cardio training, but even if I'm doing my work out slower than the person beside me on the same machine, my heart rate is higher than hers. How come?
So, lets say the changing room. It is wierd. For me, I can be in the changing room changing infront of other women, they are people whom I do not know. But I do not dare to change my clothings infront of people I knew.
I went to the steam bath, difficulty in breathing and the place is hot. The seat is hot too. That I think I didn't even dare to place my foot on the ground as I scared that my foot will get cooked because of conduction. Then there was this women, she lie flat totally on the seat that she is so cool, the seat is really very hot. WOW, maybe she have already gotten use of it. But I'm really concern about the hygiene.
Somehow, my gym khakis is like abandoning me. YiMeng and Anna always have something on.
Opps. Telephone at home rang just now.
Uncle: 你妈妈有在吗?
Me: 不好意思, 请问是哪位找她?
LOL, it sounds stupid to answer a call at home like this.
Anyway, just return home not long ago after a jog. I ran to AMK and bought KOI for my siblings. And my eldest sister is impressed (not at the bubble tea) and says I should go for a marathon.
ShiSi: Wah, like that can go for a marathon already. How long you took?
Me: Crazy, I took 50 minutes, I jog very slow cannot go marathon.
SiQing: A marathon is about 4 hours, they don't care if you took the whole night, some people might reach the finishing line when people already 放工.
Shisi is now taking half a year leave from work, so envy. She now spend her time at home baking cookies, making noodles and dishes for her husband.
SiQing is now back from 2 weeks away at Taiwan and China for handball tournament trip cum holiday. Envy. She bought me a dress and a awesome one piece logo handphone strap. And she bought many food home trying to make me fat.
Shiyi just won $300 from Mahjong playing overnight and reach home this morning and she treats the whole family breakfast except me. I'm like outcast from family as I spend my Sunday morning sleeping and they all went for bak kut teh together.
Mama says she wants to bring me for Langkawi for holiday. If by then I can have a toned abs with a obvious 6 pack and a pair of tone and slim thighs, shall buy a dozen bikinis for celebration. LOL. But wouldn't know the trip will be postpone again or not and will not place high hope on it because we were like saying about going to Langkawi since like one or two years ago. Papa's dog is giving birth again soon, so if the puppies were born, papa have to take care of them and our trips will be cancelled. Doris at work is getting married, if she take leave, I can't dammit get leave at the same time.
4.40pm Sunday 2August2009
So, lets say the changing room. It is wierd. For me, I can be in the changing room changing infront of other women, they are people whom I do not know. But I do not dare to change my clothings infront of people I knew.
I went to the steam bath, difficulty in breathing and the place is hot. The seat is hot too. That I think I didn't even dare to place my foot on the ground as I scared that my foot will get cooked because of conduction. Then there was this women, she lie flat totally on the seat that she is so cool, the seat is really very hot. WOW, maybe she have already gotten use of it. But I'm really concern about the hygiene.
Somehow, my gym khakis is like abandoning me. YiMeng and Anna always have something on.
Opps. Telephone at home rang just now.
Uncle: 你妈妈有在吗?
Me: 不好意思, 请问是哪位找她?
LOL, it sounds stupid to answer a call at home like this.
Anyway, just return home not long ago after a jog. I ran to AMK and bought KOI for my siblings. And my eldest sister is impressed (not at the bubble tea) and says I should go for a marathon.
ShiSi: Wah, like that can go for a marathon already. How long you took?
Me: Crazy, I took 50 minutes, I jog very slow cannot go marathon.
SiQing: A marathon is about 4 hours, they don't care if you took the whole night, some people might reach the finishing line when people already 放工.
Shisi is now taking half a year leave from work, so envy. She now spend her time at home baking cookies, making noodles and dishes for her husband.
SiQing is now back from 2 weeks away at Taiwan and China for handball tournament trip cum holiday. Envy. She bought me a dress and a awesome one piece logo handphone strap. And she bought many food home trying to make me fat.
Shiyi just won $300 from Mahjong playing overnight and reach home this morning and she treats the whole family breakfast except me. I'm like outcast from family as I spend my Sunday morning sleeping and they all went for bak kut teh together.
Mama says she wants to bring me for Langkawi for holiday. If by then I can have a toned abs with a obvious 6 pack and a pair of tone and slim thighs, shall buy a dozen bikinis for celebration. LOL. But wouldn't know the trip will be postpone again or not and will not place high hope on it because we were like saying about going to Langkawi since like one or two years ago. Papa's dog is giving birth again soon, so if the puppies were born, papa have to take care of them and our trips will be cancelled. Doris at work is getting married, if she take leave, I can't dammit get leave at the same time.
4.40pm Sunday 2August2009
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Saturday, August 1, 2009 - 11:25 AM Y
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So there is this regular customer whom I went in and have a chat. So we were having like a conversation then it came to:
*Jimmy: Diploma no use, must take degree so that it really do helps at work. I know because I'm a diploma holder.
*Barrick: Aiya, marry a capable men then don't need to work.
Me: Haha, thats what I think. Find a men with five digit salary then I can don't need care these.
Jimmy: Wow, you very greedy leh, still five digit salary.
Me: Is like that one mah.
Barrick: So you know how to cook?
Me: Eh, don't know, but I can learn one.
Barrick: Like that fail already.
Jimmy: Ya lor, I can cook better than my wife.
Me: Aiyah, don't know cooking also nevermind, got maid can already. Plus women can not know everything, if not guy will think that she is capable of doing a lot of things and will place high expectations on you, then you will just make your life harsher. (My idol, Xiao S say one) Plus, like dat do I need to know how to make 刺绣?
Barrick: Yup, my pants always have holes.
Me: So maybe I can sew some flowers or maybe one pair of 鸳鸯 on your pants. Eh, how come so long didn't see you all come here already?
Barrick: I am busy trying to earn a five digit salary, if not how can marry you?
See, men are really good at talking. Maybe I don't look like a decent women, so guys can talk nonsense with me. Shall reflect on my image that I set on myself, how did I send the wrong information or signal to display myself this way?
I just flip thorugh my O Level notes on Food and Nutrition, it teaches how to cook, different methods for cooking, what are the vitamins and minerals, different types of food, choosing food, food preparation and even teach you on budgeting when buying food and teaches you how to complain. LOL! It teaches you how to make complain because of consumers right!
Maybe if I really am so fortunate to be a housewife, I shall love cooking and doing house chores. Treat cooking, doing laundry and mopping floors and other chores as my favourite hobby. That would makes life happier and enjoyable. You know those type when cooking, refer to a recipe book, come out with different types of food daily then after that bring these food for hubby to try, hubby says nice even though it taste horrible. See, hubby must say it is nice even if it taste horrible, who would like to hear the food they makes isn't nice?
Then blast out loud those songs like from Akon or lady gaga while doing laundry and mopping floors or etc, it can increase the tempo of doing the chores, and listen to music can makes your mood much more enjoyable and treats it as a form of exercise, can even shake a little and try a little sexy dance move and add it in while doing house chores. Wouldn't it be cool? Hubby see wife doing house chores sexily. LOL. Plus like this you won't be seen as a 黄脸婆~~ >.<
12.10pm Saturday 01August2009
*Jimmy: Diploma no use, must take degree so that it really do helps at work. I know because I'm a diploma holder.
*Barrick: Aiya, marry a capable men then don't need to work.
Me: Haha, thats what I think. Find a men with five digit salary then I can don't need care these.
Jimmy: Wow, you very greedy leh, still five digit salary.
Me: Is like that one mah.
Barrick: So you know how to cook?
Me: Eh, don't know, but I can learn one.
Barrick: Like that fail already.
Jimmy: Ya lor, I can cook better than my wife.
Me: Aiyah, don't know cooking also nevermind, got maid can already. Plus women can not know everything, if not guy will think that she is capable of doing a lot of things and will place high expectations on you, then you will just make your life harsher. (My idol, Xiao S say one) Plus, like dat do I need to know how to make 刺绣?
Barrick: Yup, my pants always have holes.
Me: So maybe I can sew some flowers or maybe one pair of 鸳鸯 on your pants. Eh, how come so long didn't see you all come here already?
Barrick: I am busy trying to earn a five digit salary, if not how can marry you?
See, men are really good at talking. Maybe I don't look like a decent women, so guys can talk nonsense with me. Shall reflect on my image that I set on myself, how did I send the wrong information or signal to display myself this way?
I just flip thorugh my O Level notes on Food and Nutrition, it teaches how to cook, different methods for cooking, what are the vitamins and minerals, different types of food, choosing food, food preparation and even teach you on budgeting when buying food and teaches you how to complain. LOL! It teaches you how to make complain because of consumers right!
Maybe if I really am so fortunate to be a housewife, I shall love cooking and doing house chores. Treat cooking, doing laundry and mopping floors and other chores as my favourite hobby. That would makes life happier and enjoyable. You know those type when cooking, refer to a recipe book, come out with different types of food daily then after that bring these food for hubby to try, hubby says nice even though it taste horrible. See, hubby must say it is nice even if it taste horrible, who would like to hear the food they makes isn't nice?
Then blast out loud those songs like from Akon or lady gaga while doing laundry and mopping floors or etc, it can increase the tempo of doing the chores, and listen to music can makes your mood much more enjoyable and treats it as a form of exercise, can even shake a little and try a little sexy dance move and add it in while doing house chores. Wouldn't it be cool? Hubby see wife doing house chores sexily. LOL. Plus like this you won't be seen as a 黄脸婆~~ >.<
12.10pm Saturday 01August2009