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Monday, November 2, 2009 - 2:10 PM Y
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Thought I was the only women who thinks that education and certificates is nonsense and useless for women. Apparently, many of my female friends thinks so too. Went YiJing's birthday celebration, Rebecca, JiaPing and I were like chatting on our future and our boyfriends as notice my status in facebook and starts 'interrogating' me. Both their boyfriend is now at the national service. I'm lucky. Muahaha~~ Can see him everyday~ 以免相思之苦~~JiaPing: Sian. After 3 years, now another four years.Rebecca: 3 years in poly, four years study in U?JiaPing: Ya lah, when I graduate old liao, can marry straight away and become shao nai nai..Me: LOL, ya lor, like that study so much also no use, graduate liao then be tai-tai. Don't know study so much also for what.JiaPing: Ya lah, last time I think studies is important. The older I become, I think women no need to study.Me: I think education is like spare tyres for women lah, if couldn't marry, at least can work and support ownself.The three of us starts nodding our head..JiaPing: My sister study until so much, then marry and work 2 years only then pregnant already. She then resigned and become housewife, and look after her baby. My mother volunteer to help look after the baby then she don't want. Say be housewife is good then my mother damn angry that spend so much money give her study also don't know for what.Me: Aiya, ownself look after kid better ma. Spend more time and can bond with them. Kids won't turn bad like that also.JiaPing: Ya, cannot give mother look after the kid also, because like that you can be housewife, then when you want go out with friends can just leave the kid with your mother and say: Ma, help me look after a while, need to go out a while~~ LOL. Anyway, got kid is a good excuse to be housewife. Like that you are not paiseh to stay at home liao, if not people will think you lazy or useless or depend on husband, because now got excuse when people say or parents in law asked why be at home and be housewife: I need to look after the children. HAHA. Rebecca: Like that also more relief because is you yourself look after the kid, if not your own kids also don't feel that close with you. Use this excuse to be housewife, stay at home look after kid, no need work, plus we no need employ maid, save money and no need afraid maid will abuse your kid or anyhow put shit into the food and feed the baby.Me: LOL, then we can also draw a proposal and show our husband why we should look after our own kid, must not let us go out work, then we can teach them their school work and look after their well being and list down all the advantages of making us housewifes.Rebecca: Haiz.. Have to wait for him complete his NS, then have to wait for him to study for another 3 years, then have to save money for another few years to get married. Wah, when I married I will be almost 30 years old.JiaPing: LOL, no, you can start saving now. Then when he finish his NS, tell him nevermind about money, you have money, marry you. (Then Jiaping starts yelling continuously and enthusiatically: Marry me! Marry me!) Conclusion: If paiseh to be taitai/shao nai nai/housewife then have a baby so you can have a reason. (Good plan. LOL. Maybe this shall be my plan.)2.55pm Monday 2 November 2009